Why he should wait for you?
My story:
Well, I love to be loved. What girl doesn’t? I use to waste so much time
trying to chase the fairytale in a man, but what I did not know was that the
fairy tale was patiently waiting for me .
Yes, Jesus is my fairytale now. With
him I discovered who I am. With him now I know how a man should love me. I stop
giving my heart away to boys, instead I gave Jesus my heart and he has yet to
disappoint me. All of the relationships that I have been in from middle school
to high school to college have been total disasters, but one thing that I can
truly say is that from those relationships I have learned how a man should love
and treat me. Now that I have the man who is love, who’s whole nature is love I
now know why I am important and why I am worth waiting for.
Now it’s your turn to discover:
Here are a few reasons why he should wait for you? Note: the
reasons why a man should wait for you
are limitless, but I have narrowed it down to a few reasons. You can come up
with many of your own to serve as a reminder of your important value.
- You are a daughter of the most high
God and that alone deserves respect
As a child of God, you have the
privilege to call the uncreated God “Abba” meaning Father. Because he is your
father you have the heavenly right to be cherished just as your Father in
heaven cherishes you. Most girls want a father who will protect her, give her
guidance, to tell her how beautiful and
how special she is. Many have that, but there are some even those reading this
post who do not. You may have never heard your dad say nice things about you or
tell you that you are beautiful and important, but Your Father in heaven says
that to you all through out his word.
- Your body is the temple of the Lord
1 Corinthians 6:19-20 says “ Do you not know that your body is a temple of the
Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not
your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body”.
Your body is
not even yours to give away, to use, and abuse. If you treat your body like a
temple then it really shows how much respect you have not only for God but for
yourself as well.
- You are like a rare Jewel that is irreplaceable
and that can not be duplicated.
You are like a ruby , which is one of the rarest jewels in the world. Rubies are original , priceless, highly valued. That's what you are.You are like the expensive jewelry behind the glass counter at the jewelry store. The expensive jewelry is protected by lasers and is handled with extreme care. No one can touch the expensive jewelry unless they are wearing gloves. That's how valued it is. Think of yourself that way?
- Because he loves and fears God
therefore he will R-E-S-P-E-C-T your decision.
If he does not KNOW the Lord then most
likely he will be carnal minded (worldly minded) and he wont love you like
Christ loved the church, he would not even know where to start. Soooooooo, If
he doesn't know God who is love then how can he respect the fact that you are
deciding to wait? But a man who KNOWS the Lord will respect and yet cherish the
fact that you chose to wait. A man who does not fear or love God will definitely not respect you.
- Because
if he really loves you He will wait . Period!!
A man who really loves you
and respects you as a woman will without a doubt wait for you. Don’t let em get
ya with smooth talk. One guy once told me that he was planning on marrying me
so we might as well have sex. WRONG! If I knew then what I know now then I would
have kicked him to the curb a long time ago instead of wasting my
precious time. Because, obviously he was not serious about me or my decision to
wait.
Be encouraged!!! Don’t give in to
temptation or the lies of the enemy. You are beautiful, precious and you are
the Lord’s beloved.
Remember your value is far above
rubies!!!! The Lord said so himself!!
Love ya all !!!
Sincerely
Anonymous Daughter of Christ
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